When I lost my Dad I realized death doesn't just take someone, it misses someone else; and in the small distance between being taken and being missed, lives are changed. There are no random acts of God; there are only connected endeavors God intentionally sets forward that sometimes we don't understand altogether. You can no more separate one life from another than you can separate a breeze from the wind.
When we say, "God's will be done on earth as it is in Heaven," we agree that all of this is one big monumental miraculous storyline He has set into motion. Father allow me to draft off of Your leading wind derailment and give me Your enlightened heart and mind to do as You will to do. Let me be in alignment to all that is Your will.