I will say the same thing and even told him on a post when he accused me of hating him that I do not hate him, he has never offended me either...
The real issue here is that some people think grace erases the need for us to speak into the lives of each other and help people grow...It is my personal humble opinion [this opinion and 1.29 will get you a cup of coffee] that grace alone and easy believing doctrines teach people that Spiritual Growth and coming into spiritual maturity is not needed at all.....it seems to disregard all of the NT Epistles regarding spiritual growth and the admonishment to grow....which does and must include correction in love, reproof, rebuke and even discipline....The grace alone /easy believers state that Jesus is maturing them passively....I do not know of a human Baby or Animal Baby that grows on passive food and water....
My personal perception is that grace alone and easy believing doctrines make sons and daughters of God very lazy in Spiritual Growth and makes them very thin-skinned apologists....it is compounded exponentially, when a person has a position of servant hood in their church and are looked upon by others has one having strong knowledge of the Word and Systematic Theology and are never challenged and then confronted with something that is inhibiting their spiritual walk such as perosnal pride, or some other hindering issue.....Personal Pride is the single largest issue we fight in ministry today...
I have witnessed first hand, how grace alone and easy believing doctrines keep Pastors from ministering to people and help them in their growth.....grace alone and easy believing doctrines call correction in love, reproof, and edification, lies, slander, hate and malice....I believe part of this reason is because grace alone and easy believing doctrines really never seem to imply or directly state there is even a need for ongoing personal sanctification [not to stay saved] but to to spiritually grow and spiritually mature....it is all a passive work of Christ, he is growing me...I do not have anything to do with my own spiritual growth, because if I do, then I am working for salvation.......I also believe this is because grace alone and easy believing doctrines dismiss outright the complete ministry of the Holy Spirit and especially his role in progressive personal sanctification...
One of the most damaging result I see in the grace alone and easy believing doctrines is that the person does not understand they can overcome now...and overcome 100% later....they struggle through their entire walk with God and never see any victory and the enemy has control of the minds, telling them...its by God's grace you have not overcome your pride, anger, hurt, offense...its ok bro/sis...God knows you are a just a work in progress....the when a fellow brother or sister challenges them to be better than their current state and they have that pride thing going because of what i stated above...the person will lash out and you discover that wow, they are just a baby....they like drinking the old wine and have no need for the new...and you need to back off so you do not burst their wine skin...
The worst result I see in grace alone and easy believing doctrines is the false humility spell it places people under....some of you should take a step back and read what you say about yourself....and then get into the Word and see what God has to say about you...and it would open your eyes...
The conclusion of the matter is this...grace alone and easy believing doctrines remove the gifts for the equipping and maturing of the Body, that might be the sand paper you need to smooth out your rough spots or to finish you into a beautiful work of art...
Satan loves Passive works of Christ alone....he thrives on you believing Passive works of Christ alone...because at the end of the day...it isolates you from the very people God might be sending your way to mature, equip and complete you for the works of the ministry you are called to....
Despite what some of you think God HAS and always WILL work though other people for the building , maturing, equipping and completing of the Body....