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I came back from work just now and found 17 likes. Show me the post I made that was right out of their book.
Speaking of which, though you banned ladies from commenting (which I still say kinda defeats the whole point...) they seem to be making their views known with the like button.
You know this thread seems to be going round and round. Kinda like the stereotypical guy that won't ask directions and just keeps driving. Maybe we need a woman to show up and provide a map.
(Okay that last comment about asking directions might have been out of their book. But this post doesn't have any likes yet because I'm still typing it so it doesn't count.)
And by the way, why are you asking guys this anyway? Show me one guy who really knows what HE wants. Men and women too, almost all people are really bad judges of themselves and their own wants and needs. And you expect men to understand women too, when most people are so bad at even understanding themselves?
Speaking of which, though you banned ladies from commenting (which I still say kinda defeats the whole point...) they seem to be making their views known with the like button.
You know this thread seems to be going round and round. Kinda like the stereotypical guy that won't ask directions and just keeps driving. Maybe we need a woman to show up and provide a map.
(Okay that last comment about asking directions might have been out of their book. But this post doesn't have any likes yet because I'm still typing it so it doesn't count.)
And by the way, why are you asking guys this anyway? Show me one guy who really knows what HE wants. Men and women too, almost all people are really bad judges of themselves and their own wants and needs. And you expect men to understand women too, when most people are so bad at even understanding themselves?
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I came back from work just now and found 17 likes. Show me the post I made that was right out of their book.
Speaking of which, though you banned ladies from commenting (which I still say kinda defeats the whole point...) they seem to be making their views known with the like button.
You know this thread seems to be going round and round. Kinda like the stereotypical guy that won't ask directions and just keeps driving. Maybe we need a woman to show up and provide a map.
(Okay that last comment about asking directions might have been out of their book. But this post doesn't have any likes yet because I'm still typing it so it doesn't count.)
And by the way, why are you asking guys this anyway? Show me one guy who really knows what HE wants. Men and women too, almost all people are really bad judges of themselves and their own wants and needs. And you expect men to understand women too, when most people are so bad at even understanding themselves?
Speaking of which, though you banned ladies from commenting (which I still say kinda defeats the whole point...) they seem to be making their views known with the like button.
You know this thread seems to be going round and round. Kinda like the stereotypical guy that won't ask directions and just keeps driving. Maybe we need a woman to show up and provide a map.
(Okay that last comment about asking directions might have been out of their book. But this post doesn't have any likes yet because I'm still typing it so it doesn't count.)
And by the way, why are you asking guys this anyway? Show me one guy who really knows what HE wants. Men and women too, almost all people are really bad judges of themselves and their own wants and needs. And you expect men to understand women too, when most people are so bad at even understanding themselves?
I really want to understand, specifically what your objections are... or where you think *I* am coming from. It seems you are painting a lot of women with a very broad 'feminist' brush, and I want to understand your view so I might object (or agree) from my point of view.
I am seeking to understand and to be understood.
I am seeking to understand and to be understood.
I came back from work just now and found 17 likes. Show me the post I made that was right out of their book.
Speaking of which, though you banned ladies from commenting (which I still say kinda defeats the whole point...) they seem to be making their views known with the like button.
You know this thread seems to be going round and round. Kinda like the stereotypical guy that won't ask directions and just keeps driving. Maybe we need a woman to show up and provide a map.
(Okay that last comment about asking directions might have been out of their book. But this post doesn't have any likes yet because I'm still typing it so it doesn't count.)
And by the way, why are you asking guys this anyway? Show me one guy who really knows what HE wants. Men and women too, almost all people are really bad judges of themselves and their own wants and needs. And you expect men to understand women too, when most people are so bad at even understanding themselves?
Speaking of which, though you banned ladies from commenting (which I still say kinda defeats the whole point...) they seem to be making their views known with the like button.
You know this thread seems to be going round and round. Kinda like the stereotypical guy that won't ask directions and just keeps driving. Maybe we need a woman to show up and provide a map.
(Okay that last comment about asking directions might have been out of their book. But this post doesn't have any likes yet because I'm still typing it so it doesn't count.)
And by the way, why are you asking guys this anyway? Show me one guy who really knows what HE wants. Men and women too, almost all people are really bad judges of themselves and their own wants and needs. And you expect men to understand women too, when most people are so bad at even understanding themselves?
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Mitspa. I am smiling as I'm typing this because I am thinking of that time when you told your girlfriend to put on some makeup so that she could meet your coworkers, and how you were confused when she was hurt. I see more of that same situation in your posts and threads, how you say things and then when ladies get upset, you don't think they have any reason to be upset and say that they are "too uptight", when it's just an issue of you not seeing things through their eyes, or why they might be hurt at something that you said.
I hope you can see this post as coming from someone who respects you as a person, and I hope you respect me enough to consider what I have to say here. I am not upset, or angry, and I am certainly not offended by the fact that you are male. But I can clearly see why ladies get offended by some of your words, and it has nothing to do with feminism.
I know you said that, in the makeup scenario, God needed to explain to you why your girlfriend was offended. I would like to suggest (in love) that you ask Him to do that for you again, in regards to your threads and posts and the way you have been received on cc by the women. I really do not think that the problem is what you think it is.
I am smiling as I'm typing this because I am thinking of that time when you told your girlfriend to put on some makeup so that she could meet your coworkers, and how you were confused when she was hurt. I see more of that same situation in your posts and threads, how you say things and then when ladies get upset, you don't think they have any reason to be upset and say that they are "too uptight", when it's just an issue of you not seeing things through their eyes, or why they might be hurt at something that you said.I hope you can see this post as coming from someone who respects you as a person, and I hope you respect me enough to consider what I have to say here. I am not upset, or angry, and I am certainly not offended by the fact that you are male. But I can clearly see why ladies get offended by some of your words, and it has nothing to do with feminism.
I know you said that, in the makeup scenario, God needed to explain to you why your girlfriend was offended. I would like to suggest (in love) that you ask Him to do that for you again, in regards to your threads and posts and the way you have been received on cc by the women. I really do not think that the problem is what you think it is.
