Deuteronomy 18:18-19
Does not the bible say it is The Fathers words, that Christ spoke?
and I will put My words [the fathers]in His mouth,
and He will tell them everything I command Him.
Whoever will not listen to My words [the Fathers]
which He speaks in My Name, I will judge him for it.
The Father is above all, even Christ the Messiah.
Yes that is not in question. But since all authority in heaven and on earth has been give over to Him and He and His Father are one and the same, it is correct to say He is in charge. For He who sees Him see the Father. He chooses who to reveal Him to - in getting to learn about Him -the Father.
The Great Commission Matthew 28:18
…17When they saw Him, they worshiped Him, but some doubted. 18
Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to Me. 19Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit,…
ALL AUTHORITY IS GIVEN OVER TO HIM, that means the Father has done just that. Yeshua is behind the wheel.
The Attitude of Christ Philippians 2:5-7
5Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus: 6
Who, existing in the form of God, did not consider equality with God something to cling to, 7but emptied Himself, taking the form of a servant, being made in human likeness.…
He is God , He emptied Himself - meaning into flesh = became human= a servant. This was His attitude but not who He is in essence (God). He was to teach us how to be humble , though we are purposed for great things in Him.
It is clear He is God:
The Beginning
John 1
1In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
2He was with God in the beginning.
3Through Him all things were made, and without Him nothing was made that has been made.
4In Him was life, and that life was the light of men.
5The Light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
So I am not sure what is even in question, or what the argument is. I do think Sha's post question is a good one. I think it is great funny to grow and learn together. God Bless!